Blog Post

Hi Again!

Posted by: Felissa M. Garcia
May 21, 2009
Topic: My Daily Personal Life, by Felissa M. Garcia

What a relief that I finally found some time to be able to talk to you again. I have been busier than a bee making tons of honey and actually I have really been enjoying the cases I've been working on. Personally, on the exercise and diet front, not doing so well. I get so absorbed in my work that I forget to take time to exercise and think about eating healthy foods. I know,and everybody who knows anything tells me, that it's a lifestyle change. Maybe I'm just not ready to make that lifestyle change right now? Maybe I should just accept what "IS" right now and just be happy with that and still move forward with my goals of becoming healthier instead of just hating how I feel about my lack of diet and exercise right now. It's a complicated issue, one that has deeper roots I'm sure but obviously something I'm not ready to deal with. Who knows. Aside from that, though, my life is wonderful and happy. I continue to be amazed at just how truly happy my life finally is. I am surrounded by the people I most love, my gorgeous hubby, my beautiful kids, Jacob, my priceless staff, and of course my little loves my dogs.

I know, however, that my other family (Mom, sisters, brothers, etc.) aren't very happy with me because I don't spend a lot of time with them. It's hard for me to explain to them that I am operating, owning and managing a big and growing Law Firm all by myself (with Jacob's help) and that by the end of the day, I don't really have anything left to give. I know I should spend more time with my other family but I just don't know what to do. I wish everybody could just understand.

Anyway, so much drama at the Firm with all the breakups of some staff with their significant others. It's really hard to see the pain that people go through when they break up with somebody but sometimes it's the best thing. But in some cases, it's not the best thing. Sometimes the best thing is to give a relationship some time apart and just to leave things alone until the right time. I'm rambling.

What else is going on? Well, I'm reading really really good book called "The Sedona Method". It is really helping me to let go of all of my negative emotions and feelings. What a sense of relief that is. It takes practice, but the book really helps you practice letting go so that your mind and spirit are free to pursue your goals, whether they are creative goals like singing, writing music or books, creating art, or anything else you want to accomplish personally or professionally. I highly recommend this book if you feel like you have negative emotions or attitudes that you want to get rid of. It's really a simple method and I am surprised at how easy it is to just LET GO of the negativity.

We are also watching the NBA Finals. I am in love, ok, with LeBron James. OMG. OMG. He is the most amazing athlete on the planet. He is AMAZING. I hope I get to go watch him play next season. I was upset that they lost last night to Orlando Magic but I BELIEVE that the Cleveland Cavaliers WILL win this series. Especially because they have my honey on their team, haha.

I have also been listening to the two albums, or CD's by Phil Wickham. If you want some really good, and inspirational music, you should buy his albums. My favorite song on one of those albums is called "Home". I've also been listening to John Mayer a lot. I go through my phases then I switch the kind of music I'm listening to.

OK, OK, the kids are calling me downstairs to go have dinner so I have to go for now. I will try to not let so much time go before I write again. I just want you to know that I appreciate you reading. Thank you so much. Have a great evening! Felissa M. Garcia